Why haven't you mentioned the paysite on your post. Better still, why isn't it in your sig so prospective affiliates can see it? Affiliates are, certainly, a good way of getting traffic and potential sales but you also need to offer them tools to drive the traffic. Have you created banners, FHGs, RSS Feeds, etc . . for these affiliates? You have to make it an enticing proposition for them to promote your site . .
