Thanx to all. Having a son is something i wanted so badly and thought it would never happen. Being a past womanizer, porn director and producer of porn, it seems that people like me are all doomed to have all girls only.(which is not bad at all).
So i have learned a lot in the last 24 hours.
I learned that a circumcision is not covered by my insurance and it costs $300 extra because it is an elective procedure. That was kinda interesting.
I did not know that you cant bring a young child to the maternity ward of a hospital. I could have been informed of this 5 days ago when we made the hospital plans at the the hospital with my daughter in hand.(it actually makes a lot of sense) It kinda sux to have to leave the hospital while your girl is going into labour, to find a pay by the hour day care.
You really find out how good of a mom your girlfriend is, when you have to take care of a 2 1/2 year old little girl all by yourself with no help from mom. Damn!! Taking care of a child is no fucking joke.
I work and work and work and my girlfriend seriously rocks as a mom, because my child gets everything she needs and i still get all of my work done. My girlfriend is a full time mom and we live together like man and wife, i just don't believe in marriage. I feel that a state enforced contract seriously changes the dynamics of a relationship, especially when you guys fight.(Had one fight in four years).
I have one issue that kinda sux right now. My girlfriend cant leave the hospital for 48 hours and my 2 1/2 year old daughter is not allowed to be at the hospitals maternity ward for more than 15 minutes. My daughter will flip out and go bazzerk if i take her to see her mom and then take her away.
So should i take her to the hospital and traumatize her? Or should i just keep her away from the hospital and entertained and happy for 2 days? Sounds funny, but its a tough decision right now.
Advice?
Ohh yea, writing a GFY post takes 20 times longer with one hand when your 2 1/2 year old daughter wants to be held and given "tickles" while watching Yo Gabba Gabba.lol
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