Seems like whitelabeling is the hot word. Affiliates aren't clicking on affiliate links so you have to essentially 'trick' them into 'thinking' they are still on your site, when they visit a cam, vod, or other co-branded product.
We started doing this with our affiliate program with our daily news feed. It is a free video news plugin with all the latest politics,sports,business, and world news......WHERE THE BROADCASTERS STRIP TO THEIR BRAS AND PANTIES.
Here is an example of our feed
Here's a website with it whitelabeled
If you go to the front of the site (
http://www.isex.com ) they put us in the tab location and they are doing well.
Hit me up if you would like one done for your site. Email me logos, color scheme, and a back button link.