I'm neither, but if you're from a hot climate where winter temps don't drop too much, then check out this lady
I had a friend go on about this 4 years ago, but only had the pleasure to experience it last summer in Spain - I took several cuttings and planted them when I got back and it's taken like hell. I've 10 flower buds on it and the smell, come 9pm+, is absolutely heavenly
I recommend this plant (Cestrum nocturnum aka Lady of the Night aka Galant de nuit) to anyone who has hot summers and mild winters....
