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Originally Posted by Slutboat
but don't kid yourself, middle class girls DO go dancing and drinking in nightclubs regularly
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Almost all of them goto nightclubs, or at the very least karaoke. "Good girls" just don't do it in Pattaya.
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Originally Posted by Slutboat
I have had relationships with girls in Thailand with normal jobs that have lasted weeks and even months and they are by far the sweetest most sincere and wonderful chicks I have ever met in the many many countries I have visited.
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Again, you have quite a bit to learn about Thai people. Have you ever accidentally pissed a Thai off? Holy shit, watch out! Land of smiles my ass.
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Originally Posted by Slutboat
they don't like it that the world thinks that all Thai women are whores, it pisses them off.
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No, they just tell you it pisses them off. If they don't want people to think of them in that way, they won't goto Pattaya. They know that. They'll goto normal clubs, in normal cities, and not Lucifer in Pattaya.
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Originally Posted by Slutboat
I mean come on - in a nightclub with 2000 people there not all the girls are hookers and gold diggers, yes the vast majority are but if you have looks, duds, and a little game there are tons of middle class girls to be had.
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In Pattaya, I think you'd be hard pressed to find someone genuine. And generally, the better English they speak, the less genuine they are, so you better brush up on your Thai. Granted, there are loads of great Thai women out there, but they're VERY few and far between in Pattaya. Trust me, Thais are very deceitful and devious shitheads, and they're fucken good at it too.
Having said that, you can definitely find some amazing people in Thailand, and some good girls too. For example, I'm living in butt-fuck nowhere, but there's a huge bar about a two minute walk from me. Every night has a live band, and usually 200 - 500 people. Myself and a couple friends are the only white people I've ever seen in there, so this is a Thai place. Sure, if you're a good looking & respectable guy, you can easily meet a decent Thai women there. Don't kid yourself though, she's in it for money & stability.
You're white. You bring a level of life to the table that they can't achieve on their own. I'm in a 15 month relationship with a Thai myself, which I hope will last for many more years, and it's going amazingly. I wouldn't have life any different. However, I'm under no delusions. Although I'm a good guy, in my 20s, clean cut, make decent cash, I know he's still in this for a better life.
Sure, he loves me, and I know it's genuine, but especially due to the language & cultural barriers, it's pretty obvious the main reason he's with me is because of the stability and financial aspects I provide. And that's fine with me. Fuck it, I'm happy, he's happy, so that's all that matters.