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raymor · 09-06-2010, 10:08 AM

Yes, use lots of lube and try different positions. Over time she'll get used to
more girth. Length is a problem when you hit her cervix. Different positions with
less penetration will help the length issue. Also, when she gets really turned on
her fornix will lift up, allowing the head of the penis to slip under it rather than
hitting the cervix. That's certainly position dependent, so get her really horny,
then try a couple of different positions.

Certain positions such as missionary or face down with her legs closed will
allow the man to get full stimulation with less penetration because the base of
the penis is stroking between her thighs.

Also, be careful and gentle while experimenting. If she has anxiety about
possible pain, she'll be less turned on, less lubed up, less relaxed, and
the fornix won't lift up as much, which will cause more pain in a vicious cycle.
You have to go real easy, maybe let her ride you so she can control the
penetration and enjoy it. Only when she's really enjoying it do you carefully
go for a little deeper penetration, then immediately back off a bit if it hurts.
She's got be enjoying it to avoid the vicious cycle of pain = anxiety = more pain.

09-06-2010, 10:08 AM
raymor Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 3,745	Yes, use lots of lube and try different positions. Over time she'll get used to more girth. Length is a problem when you hit her cervix. Different positions with less penetration will help the length issue. Also, when she gets really turned on her fornix will lift up, allowing the head of the penis to slip under it rather than hitting the cervix. That's certainly position dependent, so get her really horny, then try a couple of different positions. Certain positions such as missionary or face down with her legs closed will allow the man to get full stimulation with less penetration because the base of the penis is stroking between her thighs. Also, be careful and gentle while experimenting. If she has anxiety about possible pain, she'll be less turned on, less lubed up, less relaxed, and the fornix won't lift up as much, which will cause more pain in a vicious cycle. You have to go real easy, maybe let her ride you so she can control the penetration and enjoy it. Only when she's really enjoying it do you carefully go for a little deeper penetration, then immediately back off a bit if it hurts. She's got be enjoying it to avoid the vicious cycle of pain = anxiety = more pain. __________________ For historical display only. This information is not current: support@bettercgi.com ICQ 7208627 Strongbox - The next generation in site security Throttlebox - The next generation in bandwidth control Clonebox - Backup and disaster recovery on steroids Last edited by raymor; 09-06-2010 at 10:11 AM..