Damn, I hate when people answer after I have already turned in. I don't have to time to read and digest it right now but I'll give a bump so it is still on th front page when I get to the office. I hate having to track down threads ;p
I did see the note that you got discharged about a year ago. What from? Army, Air Force, Marines, National Guard, Navy ? I was in the Nav for 8 years

know what its like to get out here, takes a while to adjust. Did you do time on the ground in Iraq or Afg? My son is in the Nav now, going on 10 years, he has been in Iraq like 3 times so far. Sailors should not be on the ground (unless they are SeaBees or SEAL).