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Originally posted by HoiDaKalen
had a girlfriend for the past 6 months. always treated her with respect, always tried to make her smile. we had some stale moments, but hey, who doesnt. i find out through a friend of hers that she cheated on me like 6 weeks ago. I confront her about it and she denies it. i found out again that she cheated on me through another friend, except a different time, so i confront her again. after like 40 minutes ofa rgueing she gives in but admits to only doing it once with another person (the first confrontation). i ask her about the 2nd, she denies it until i threaten to call one of her friends in front of her and make her ask. she admits to it. she tells me shes sorry, she never wanted to hurt me, she loves me, blah blah blah blah blah. cries, runs after me, all this crap. blames it on the alcohol. promises she told me everything. THEN the next day, i find out that she fucked some kid at a party verry recently. i didnt confront her about it yet. i dont know what i should do, please, any advice is appreciated.
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Scanned through the thread so if this was already suggested forgive me.
Do you want to stay with her?
She only cheats when she is drunk?
If so tell her in order to stay in a relationship with you she MUST quit drinking completely. I had a friend who was the same way she ONLY cheated on her guy when she was drunk. She finally quite drinking and is now in a relationship for like 7 years and has never cheated on him to my knowledge.
I also know a few men who would only cheat when they were drinking so I think that whole drinking thing does cause more cheating because it messes up your judgement and you do things you would never do straight.