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That is tough because you have not been prepared to sever the emotional ties. Unfortunately she is conflicted between the urge to act on sexual impulse and the security of being in a full time relationship.
I feel you need to let her go. not a hey I am mad and we need to take some time off. A clean break. Clip it off and do not look back. This kind of break up is usually the toughest because you never get full closure. You do get to walk away with your dignity in tact.
If you have committed yourself and have not had the same in return. Walk away and know you did what any grounded person would do. it is not the easiest road, in fact it is to the contrary but it is really the only choice she has left you with. Be sure to tell her that you have hurt me far beyond anything I could have imagined and for that I have to move on
she will be left at the curb looking like the shallow person she is. The best way to recover is go find a hotter girl...or a girl you are really into become very happy and not really think about her until you hear stories of insecure cheating girls who end up being 34 alone and living with two cats and spend sunday nights watching sex in the city eating pizza and being miserable withthe other women she knows who have done the same
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