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a lot of depends on the relationship you have with the guy...is he new and you are trying to win him over/impress him? is this a guy you've been with for a while and want to spice things up?
in the first senario, something kinky the guy wouldn't expect would work for me. dude thinks hes in for regular sex but no, you like it freaky. for some reason a girl saying she wants me to hurt her turns me on..(not really hurt her but you know, she wants it rough)
if your in a long relationship and things have become too routine...its even easier. just be into it. be really into it. don't seem bored, don't seem like you don't like this or don't like that, it just ruins the mood. surprise your guy from time to time. bring up trying different things. don't make him feel like hes the only one who wants to be adventerous in bed. and yeah, bringing home a hot friend is cool too but only the lucky ones get to experience that.
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