Originally Posted by garce

Forgive me if I have no sympathy for you. Forgive me if I come across as being rude at times.

I am done with bullshit. Why?

My mother-in-law died in April. She was sick. In 1995 she was given 6 months to live. Its been a nail-biter since then.

In May - right after my birthday - a good friend of mine hung himself. I found this out because another friend walked int his apartment and found him. Dead and hanging.

Later in May, my estranged niece was murdered n Bancroft. I hadn't seen her in years, but I have some great memories from when she was a kid.

My mother died in June. She did not leave a will, or have any insurance. I spent three years caring fr her, taking her to doctor's appointments, taking her to therapy, calling 911 on a regular basis. I'm left to deal with her mountain of debt, and left to care for my severely handicapped sister. What? I'm supposed to put my sister in a home? That's not going to happen. She'd die there.

I could live without the $183,000 debt, though. Thanks, mom! (I did try to get her finances in order. I couldn't force her - or get power of attorney).

My aunt just told me that my grabdfather's second wife finally succomed that's been eating away at her for years. Even though she wasn't my biological grandmother, she was good woman.

So, if you whine about something, forgive me for not giving a fuck.