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Old 11-30-2010, 01:17 PM  
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I've never read it, but I knew a girl who read it in high school and she became like a stepford wife.

She started practicing talking to herself in the mirror, and tweaked nearly everything about how she presented herself. The more she "practiced" the more it became habbit.

Then one day it was like she crossed the line. She became like a newscaster, she never turned off, was always in this weird fake space.

I have no doubt that it has practical applications in the business world, but on a personal level she lost her sense of self and became like a weird robot version of the girl I knew. It might be due to the age at which she read it, maybe she was too impressionable and took the philosphies and practices too much to heart, but IMO she lost probably about as much as she gained from it.
A lot of the book is about being a fake person in order to get what you want. A good portion of the advice is good, but I think that the reader needs to find a balance between being their genuine selves and also enriching their lives by becoming a better person using the book as a loose guide.

I prefer 7 Habits, I think it's better advice "ethically" and "morally", but Dale Carnegie does have a lot of good advice and really does understand human behavior.
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