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Originally Posted by Sly
If you are always paying and cleaning up after your friends, you aren't really friends. Some will argue, but really, it's that simple. Stop paying and make them start cleaning up... see how often they come over. You'll probably never see them again.
There are friends. There are leeches. You are describing leeches. They will only suck you dry.
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BINGO!! Give that man a cookie.
It's really easy to tell friends from people that you are simply neighbors with, and you've known that for some time, you just haven't admitted it to yourself. I have friends that truly don't have any money, and I know that, so I don't expect anything from them, but at the same time they always offer to do something in replacement, from helping with cleaning up, or whatever. They find ways to contribute. These people are not doing that over a long period, therefore they don't care, therefore they are not friends. Stop inviting them over.
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