Try using your experience to go from affiliate sales to sales and service. You know there are tons of people still coming into the adult biz, and you know what they will need and how it can be used.
Perhaps in 2011 you will make a comeback offering a service to the noobs in this industry who need guidance? If you can cut 2 years off of their learning curve, they should use your hosting service or designing service, etc...
You have the knowledge, use it to sell services in '11
You're not going anywhere!
~Ray