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Originally Posted by Bank Of America
I used to feel like Pornlaw.
I don't anymore.
Undiagnosed mental illness is what makes these girls get into this business.
They all self medicate in one way or another.
Pornstars have the unique ability to compartmentalize- and block out all emotion or feeling to concentrate on the task at hand.
Like Michael Jordan when he was in his "zone"
Once a woman makes money with their pussy, it's all over.
They never get used to working a real job again and only exploit men with it.
Period
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Basically I would agree with you but I have a unique situation. I have only been involved with two pornstars seriously so I have limited "relationship" experience.
Anyone looking to be Captain Sav-A-Ho... I can tell you that you will be disappointed. That what I tried with the first girl. I though she needed to be saved... I ended up very disappointed in what transpired between us.
But I didnt give up. I just changed my attitude and found one that had more to offer besides her pussy.
I guess it also depends on what you consider a "real" job. Since we started dating Vanessa has only performed in a handful of scenes - mostly with women though. Most of what she does everyday is exactly what most of you on this board do - design, maintain, operate and update her websites and social networking sites to push traffic. Seems pretty normal to me but probably not to real civilians. She realized long ago that being in front of the camera as a limited shelf life and she has taught herself everything. Is she 1 in a 100 ? Probably, but there are plenty of other women in the industry that are doing the same.
Will she always use her "pussy" to make money - I hope so - one way or another. Just like I will always use my mind to make my money. She would be miserable with a real civilian job and I would never ask her to change. She may not be in front of the camera for much longer but as she jokes - she will be shooting porn from her wheelchair.
So when Im 70 and there's naked 18yr olds running around my house as she is directing a scene I will consider myself very lucky... LOL