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Originally posted by Amputate Your Head
I guess I'm thinking, alot of kids are dumb when it comes to this shit. 18 - 19 year old kids aren't exactly the best decision makers in the world. I sure as hell wasn't. Is it really wrong (as the parent) to lay down the law, so to speak, and tell them what they need to do in order to not be a fuckup? Or is the risk of them turning on you (because of that) too much?
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You said it yourself before....if you force them to go one way, they usually go the other just to spite you and to have a feeling of independence.
Don't push - and you probably don't have to worry - most kids find their way when they're ready.