http://nymag.com/print/?/news/features/70976/
Wow - this is messed up
"Ron says that for the past couple of years, he?s had weekly dates with his favorite porn stars, which he looks forward to all day and even showers and shaves for, as though preparing for a live-action rendezvous. Mondays are for Gia Jordan, he says. Tuesdays for Sasha Grey. Wednesdays he has a reprieve a Portuguese night class. I always look forward to Thursdays the most Kasey Kox, he says. Then, on the weekends, I hang out with my girlfriend. Occasionally, when he returns to his apartment on Sundays, Ron explains, he roams the web looking for candidates to spend time with on Wednesday nights in case he has leftover energy after his language class. I don?t like to believe that porn is replacing anything I have with my girlfriend, he says, but I?ve always loved sex, and I?ve always had a lot of it, so I really had to stop and think about it when she asked me recently why she always has to be the one to initiate things. And she was right; I guess I?ve been fading from her. It?s like all that time with these porn stars was subduing any physical desire for my girlfriend. And, in some weird way, my emotional need for her, too."