Originally Posted by angeleyes

why is it so socially acceptable if a 25 yr old man dates a young girl, just barely legal, but if a woman that is ...lets say 36 dates a 25 yr old guy, what the hell is the big deal if both people laugh together, make each other happy and the sex life is healthy (as in good).[
Lets assume both ppl are hot. He is finishing up medical school and she's in nursing school.. or was, so they have stuff in common.

Actually this thread is NOT about me (I'm older so it aint me), but my friend which is catching shit left right and center about it, so I figured, you guys don't bite your tongue, I wanna hear what you got to say. They have been together about a year. If you read my thread about cancer, same friend.

I'm just more curious about the general publics perception of the Ashton/Demi type relationaships vs. the Donald Trump with the young arm candy scenario.

Curious minds want to know. (Tiff actually asked me to post this, she doesn't work in this industry and is blown away by GFY (how busy it is)

Originally Posted by mikesinner

thousands of years of male oppression. that's the difference.

Originally Posted by Spunky

When I was in my 20's I liked the older women,now that I'm in my 40's I like the younger women

Originally Posted by Jdoughs

My wife is 13 years older then me, and has been for the last 10 or so years we've been together (go figure .)

Nobody 'talks' but she sure wishes they did. I would guess the reason 'Tiff' wanted you to post is she probably makes the biggest deal about the age difference. And she's the one who likes the attention. (my wife isnt the only older woman I've dated/had relationships with, they all love the attention and thought of a young man more then anyone else involved (naturally).

For the record, a 25 yr old man is a YOUNG MAN too.

Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

I'm 16 years older than my girlfriend. You can't choose who you fall in love with, and as long as they are both consenting adults whats the big deal? love is love, tell your friend to enjoy what she has found and don't let fucktards ruin it for her.

Originally Posted by stickyfingerz

Originally Posted by angeleyes

yeah, she used to like the attention and I'm infamous for going after younger guys too in the past so I get it, but she looks younger than him so they don't get the stares, it's her other friends that are riding her ass but I'm thinking they are just jealous because he's HOT... if she were not my friend, I'd tap that ass. lol (joking) She's the typical hot blonde and he's the typical dark hair/tall guy (perfect stereotype couple).

Sort of.

Originally Posted by wtfent

I'm 27 and the last girl i dated was 40, people did look at us strange but we both liked the attention. It was fun. Nothing wrong with it. Its kinda like seeing two guys holding hands, not something you see everyday so people will hate just because its not what they're use to. Who really cares what people think.

Originally Posted by SilentKnight

My wife's 7 yrs. younger than I.

It's just a number. It's never been a factor to our 14 yr. relationship.

Originally Posted by angeleyes

age aside, just having a relationship last that long is amazing in this day and age, so congrats!

Originally Posted by d-null

what two people do in their relationship shouldn't be anyone else's business


but generally, maturity and all that it tends to be a way better fit for the more usual older guy younger girl relationships ...... but if a couple is happy then nobody else should judge

Originally Posted by L-Pink

I just broke up with a girl 22 years younger than me. She wanted kids.


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Originally Posted by AmeliaG

What do you call a forty-five-year-old guy with a twenty-five-year-old girlfriend? Successful.

What do you call a forty-five-year-old chick with a twenty-five-year-old boyfriend? Cougar.

I just wrote a thing about this because I saw a press release on a cougar convention thing:

Originally Posted by kane

When I was 22 I had about a 5-6 month long fling with a woman that was 42. She had three kids and was sexy. We carpooled to work and would stop at her house every day after work and screw. It was a kick ass 6 months.

That said, I think there is a stigma to it. I think when people see an older guy with a younger girl they think he is a guy who has something going on - be it money, power, looks whatever, which is why he was able to land a younger hottie. When they see a younger guy with an older woman they often think he is either desperate or he is looking for a sugar momma.

This is just from my own experiences. I have been with friends and heard their comments when we see couples out in public that have a noticeable age difference.

Originally Posted by angeleyes

get over yourself... pissed because you don't have a 20 yr old hot blonde on your arm. She's having fun and so far you are the only one judge.... Whatever, Grow Up!

Originally Posted by MetaMan

you need to grow up you come across as a complete fucking psycho and i literally mean that. you are the type of chick to bite a cock off.

what are you fucking 12? who cares what people think about age difference or anything for that matter.

are you on a whole heap of prescription meds? or what is your excuse for being such a loose cannon/insane?

i wouldnt want any woman that steps within 5feet of you let alone a woman who somehow has enough in common with you that she is your "friend". why would i want someone on my arm who keeps the company of a complete psychopath such as yourself?

Originally Posted by nico-t

people love to talk and gossip about other people and judge them. I dont understand that since i dont have any interest in who other people date. if the dude likes older ladies and the lady likes younger guys who gives a fuck?

Originally Posted by PR_Tom

This is one of those funny things where the only time I've ever heard about it, is when someone is saying that everyone has a problem with it.

I think it's one of those things where you only notice it if you are extra sensitive to it.

Originally Posted by DanielS

Psichology says that if you're with an older woman, you're looking for a mother instead of a partner.
Real men always look for younger girls. It's all about sexual attraction. And the girls are looking for love + money (:

Originally Posted by baddog

WTF?

Originally Posted by SomeCreep

Very simple, in the former scenario, both individuals are fertile. In the latter, one is fertile and one is questionable.

Originally Posted by riggo

age shouldnt matter no one can help how they feel or who they fall in love with...In my life i dated a girl who was 6 years younger i fucked a girls who were 9 years older then me (when i was 16) and my current girlfriend....basically my wife is 4 years older then me...enjoy who your with and fuck what anyone else thinks

Originally Posted by Chosen

No problem with the age difference as long as couple happy together

Originally Posted by seeandsee

what to say, i would enjoy to fuck 30-35 yr old girl, but i enjoy fucking 18-20 yr old girls and those from 21-29

Originally Posted by LoveSandra

Originally Posted by umbralui

love and death never knock at the door

I have a relationship, for some time, with a lady 10 years older than me and we feel gorgeous.

I had relationships with young womens, but they are not enough truly beautiful as a lady and mind of younger chicks are in the corners..beauty is fleeting, and you know that ..

Originally Posted by dooglas

I'll probably marry a girl 15-20 years younger or so

Originally Posted by Pornwolf

Here's the real answer, in general the man is supposed to lead the woman.

He's supposed to be able to guide her mentally, physically, emotionally and financially.

It is not supposed to be the other way around. So, when a woman is seen with a much younger man they know very little of the above is being provided. Which makes them look and, in most cases rightfully, say WTF!?

Originally Posted by L-Pink

Good points.


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Originally Posted by d-null

A buddy of mine is going through this exact thing right now, he is 38 she is 19, and all of us friends of him are seeing him change and looking like an idiot.

It would be different if he was cool and didn't care if she came or went, but he is getting all insecure about it and changing himself, the way he dresses and trying to impress her every day.

She actually seems to have the upper hand which is so ridiculous, all she has going for her is looks and youth, he has fallen for that in such a big way that he is doomed for a big fall and all his friends see that but he doesn't.

Originally Posted by nudecanada

"what the hell is the big deal if both people laugh together, make each other happy"

Therein lies your answer. Nothing wrong with that at all. We have friends in similar situations and ask "Are you happy" and if they are, that is all that matters. Case closed.

Originally Posted by BCyber

I've had relationships with older women too but when you get down too it, it just isn't gonna work in most situations.

Like I'm 29 and still would like to have a family some day. Am I gonna marry a 40 year old women and expect to have three kids with her and what not? No, not gonna happen. Most of these women have already had kids and been married and now are just whatever...

The older man situation can work out better for obvious reasons.