There is only 1 bad thing I must say about the adult industry....seriously only #1.
We've all been to dozens (if not 100+ industry parties) & we see the people who obviously can't handle their booze (and other substances)....yet it seems to be encouraged, especially with the younger crowd.
I for one will be taking a stance on alchohol (especially drug use) at any future get-togethers. If I find someone is getting out of control, I will try my best to take them back to my hotel room & discuss business (have some coffee) etc.
I will no longer be a part of the problem. Don't get me wrong....I am by no means a rat...& I am not anti alcohol or drug (pot doesn't even count imo). I'm just now a firm believer that all things should be done in moderation! However if i see someone completely off the rails at a show, I do believe I will pull them aside & at least tell them about guys like Big_D....especially the new guys, who have no idea what their in for.
With new $ & fame....success....comes huge temptations to fuck up your life. Quite a few of us have done it at least once since joining the biz. Very few of us however have totally quit them all (such as myself, thank god).
By just altering the perception of "the lifestyle" for 1 person....We can all make a huge difference & make sure we keep our friends/clients etc. Along for a very long time!
