How about for a start you give your surfers what they want??
http://www.xxxtreme.com/watch.php?tag=lh4ONk2gHc
Why would I sit and watch this video then click on any of the banners on that page when I am interested in this video? You have a link above the video for it but I missed it first time round so Im pretty sure your surfers will too. Grab a banner, throw it up you will get way more clicks trust me!
That's one free piece of advice, if you want more in regards to promoting PimpRoll sites, drop me a line and I will be only too happy to help you.