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Originally Posted by d-null
freedom is the number one important thing there is, it is insane to give that up just for some cooking and sex (which becomes mind numbingly boring with the same partner after the 1000th time)
I have no desire at all to compromise my freedoms and get roped into the torture of a confined relationship ever again, I wish I knew many years ago what it took me a long time of trial and error to find out, I can't stand the idea of being tied down to one person, no matter how good they are  |
Good points. I always believed freedom is most important too. And I am prob not the easiest to live with plus I get tired of people very easily too.
It is the compromise we all have to live with.
I have been alone most of my life from the time of being a young boy (without all the details) so I have a strong sense of self and always pulling my own weight and being able to be happy alone.
But I am pragmatic enough to know that two people are better than one as you go through the drudgery of day to day life and as the years go on. Just has to be the right two.
Cooking, a lil dusting, basicly only pulling my own weight is not that bad. Thanks to this biz.
If I worked a 9-5 I would prob find someone immediately. That would be overwhelming.
There is always someone pulling more weight than I am. Still ya got to complain once in a while.