You can start your own small "support blogs" on different free hosts to build links which will help you SEO wise.
You can create a free blog here:
http://www.thumblogger.com/
and at
http://blogspot.com (just be sure to mark it adult or they will close it down!)
create maybe 2-3 blogs on each, with a minimum of say 10 posts on each blog.
You can also join fetish forums, anser questions there and post your link in the answer. Write quality answers, not some cheap, borig, tired shit about blah, blah, blah. Make it interesting, so you would want to follow the link yourself, think QUALITY and deliver it too!
Comment on other fetish blogs. Again QUALITY answers that people would appreciate and want to follow the link onto.
Read other ideas I gave out here:
https://gfy.com/showthread.php?t=1021665
If you can manage to get 1-5 new links, from a new, different domain, each month, during your first year - then you're doing good. That should get you noted in the search enginges and start bringin people in. Let it take some time.