Hitting first because you assume someone was going to hit you makes you deserve to be hit. (thus do the punished come to merit their punishment) It's a clear cycle that people still sometimes get stuck in. Thats why the phrase is "put on" a happy face. It takes actual effort.
And yeah, there's a difference between bitching a lot about really just a few little things (human nature), and actually being seriously negative about seemingly everything.
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