Due to ravaged self esteems and self loathing, it's usually harder to connect with these women. Harder than skinny or athletic women, actually, imho.
And I blurt stupid shit out sometimes when I'm nervous, like
"i'm going to go home and masturbate and think about you"
or
"i love voluptuous women because they sweat more and oh, btw, i have a foot fetish
...I would think that these tawdry little comments would at least endear me to them in some way, or...
