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Originally Posted by Trayce
See that? Your comments in the other threads I was thinking "wow, what an ass," but you actually get it. LOL Jokes on me. Good job  Maybe I'm just the suckiest judge of character on the panet. |
I just knew where it was (or wasn't) going with them early on.
The oldest trick in the book is not letting them pay for stuff, etc. until they are fully on the hook. As well as withholding sex to make it look like you're really into them. The sooner the guys figure out the game the sooner they will help themselves.
And although I don't have an open relationship we occasionally play together and we have ground rules and I know what a disaster it can become when one doesn't respect them. We are four years in and they're still being respected but I haven't been that lucky in the past relationships where a threesome became a twosome.
And to be honest, with him bragging about what a playa he is yet not being able to seal the deal, I was suspecting him as gay.
I am here to tell you that there are much better fish in the sea and at least you found out now rather than later. Deal with your emotions and then open yourself up for another guy that who hopefully wont be such a douche. Live and learn.