http://www.plentyoffish.com is a great free dating site. After my wife and I separated, I found one girl on there that lived 3 hours away from me and I talked to her for HOURS on the phone, then went down and spent a weekend with her, it was a good time, but I didn't like that kind of distance, so I broke it off before it got too serious. Then I found a second girl on there and we had a month long fling, where I got sex also, ha ha. She ended up moving away for school, so that was broken off. My current gf, I met on Craigslist and we've been together 7 months now and it's going good, she's pretty amazing.