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Originally Posted by kane
Anything that is overused is bad. Having a few drink while out with your friends every now and then is a good thing. Sitting at home every night drinking until you pass out is not. Smoking a joint every now and then is no big deal. Getting baked every day to the point where all you do is lay around all day and watch Spongebob while eating Twinkies is not.
Checking out porn from time to time is no big deal. Watching it for hours every day can desensitize you to it and cause some people problems.
One thing she does get correct is that porn is getting more and more violent. While there has always been the existence of Bondage type material, the more mainstream stuff gets crazier and crazier. It used to be enough that we saw a woman give head or get fucked. Now she has to get throat fucked until her eyes are watering and she is puking on the cock or she is getting fucked in all her holes at the same time by four different dudes. It seems like the boundaries keep getting pushed and the industry is full of copycats so once someone does it and has success everyone else follows their lead and many of those followers try to take it to the next level.
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I'm sure some people "get desensitized" and crave harder and harder stuff but I don't think that is what's going on. Extreme porn is wanted by a certain subset of society but I think their numbers are actually smaller than the industry gives them credit for. What I would say happened is someone put up an extreme site and it sold well *because it's harder to find. There are unlimited pics and vids of vanilla porn out there. The reason there are so many is because this is a copycat industry that lost the will or ability to innovate years ago. All these lazy companies see is throatfuckers.com getting good sales so they reproduce it, have some success and get copied themselves. There is still way more 'normal' porn around than extreme stuff and I bet if you compared the actual numbers of people signing up for it the extreme stuff would barely be a blip on the radar.
Then you have the fact that many people have fantasies of crazy ass shit but never want to do it in real life. A huge % of women have rape fantasies and many watch extreme porn themselves even though they'd never do what is on the screen. Blaming porn for violence is retarded, much like blaming Spongebob for making kids try to breathe underwater.
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