I remember when I first started plaing with cfforms, you have to point a folder from the coldfusion admin to your site folder for it to work right.
I asked him to show me as I was curious.
He went on to show me how to get in using remote access, creating folders in the site folder and setting the properties up, mime types and shit. He then went on showing me how to point the cflib folder to the newly created domain.
I didn't retain any of that and the next time I needed it pointed, in fear of fucking something up on a 650/month dedicated unmanaged box...
I just made him do it
He still does it for me whenever it comes up
Best of luck to everyone involved