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At first I didn't want to post in this thread since the title is so intentionally derisive and the OP is a notorious troll, but then figured it might be a means of educating those who are ignorant by no fault of their own.

I'm reminded of when I asked a gay friend about the politically correct terminology as quite a few terms seemed to be OK. I think I asked something along the lines of "what is an acceptable way to refer to someone who is homosexual?"

He told me 'homosexual' was certainly not the best because it contains 'sexual.' He informed me that a significant proportion of the gay community are abstinent for one reason or another, and having 'sexual' in there just played to the image that all gays are sexual deviants and pedophiles. I had never considered that aspect of the term so feel it is worth sharing.

Along those same lines, I imagine it is close minded to assume that all gays who are sexually active engage in anal sex, whether on the giving or receiving end - certainly there are those who find less dominant/submissive ways to express themselves sexually. It's kind of like asking a guy if he fucks his girlfriend in the ass or does she do him with a strapon - there are other options that the phrasing of the question does not provide for.

As for gays that do engage in anal sex, I don't think it takes a genius to figure out it's a matter of personal preference.

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