I have been with my girlfriend on and off, but mostly on since I was 16.
I fucked her in the ass once. She had never tried it and neither had I.
She complained of pain and said that she bled a little afterwards, she thought maybe she ripped some tissue or something.
We bought her this weird like anal preparedness kit before we did it lmfao
but it didn't help. It was like this small vibrator with these different sized rubber attachments, one was a tiny bit bigger than the other lol.
It didn't really seem like a magnificent thing at the time meaning something I would want to ditch vaginal sex for, so we never really did it again after that. She didn't like it one bit, why would I force it on her. In the same sense, she knows I don't want a finger up my ass and probably doesn't want her finger in there anyway.
The other girls I had been with never tried to either. I don't think any woman would want to voluntarily do that, but I could be wrong lol.
Am I missing out on anything other than some crying afterward from myself and maybe her as well? Do a lot of chicks really try to sneak one in there?