Originally Posted by Barefootsies

No, I do not tell them that because it rarely happens.

I've shot over 130 women over the years. The only time, to my knowledge, a parent found out was.... either the girl told them (because they have an open relationship).... or they told a brother/friend and when they had gotten in some spat they narc'ed em out. That being said, it's happened maybe 3 times ever in the better part of a decade.

Now, I can't speak for mainstream porn where you are going to get more exposure and run the chance of being the new "it" girl. As that could always play a role in things. However, for niche and fetishes, unless your friends/family have one (fetish). The odds of being found are rare.