This guy was the drummer for a band that played in Ozzfest a while back. He did some shows with Ozzy, slipknot, etc in his hay day. I think that is why I when I got these type of responses, I was all...
I just didn't know how strongly he felt or that all his friends were on the same boat I guess. I knew where this was headed so I just politely implied it would be best if we both respect each others differences, to which his pastor friend replied:
That's cool Jason and I do respect your opinion too bro, and I'm good friends with ___ also. (Outside a religious view there is a lot of info on how porn is hurting relationships also - both in married couples and dating relationships).
I'm just gonna leave it at that lol.