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Vjo · 02-23-2012, 01:15 AM

This is the further adventures of a seven month old tiny kitten named Buddy and I vs Dickhead and The Cunt.

If you dont/cant read more than two lines, you know where the back button is. Thanks anyhow for your interest. I appreciate it. For the rest, maybe some of you are angry over things you CANNOT control. Read on..

So I get home from getting groc at 11:00 pm. The assholes are lights out by at least 10:00 pm. The house is fully dark. Cunty has to rise and shine at 5 am to make her 100K nurses salary. Yes sadly with all that money she is still a miserable cunt.

They are rich. I am dead poor. They have each other. I am alone. An old man, getting older and alone. I have ONE thing in my home life.. a little kitty named Buddy. It seems they are being so mean and unfair to me. No sense of right.

I am relieved it is lights out so now Buddy can run without worry he may go over there.. but fact is Buddy hasnt gone over there since the ONE time 2 weeks ago I posted about which caused The Cunt to have a shit fit. And she said I should commit Buddy to a lifetime of the leash...

The overwhelming consensus was she should be on a leash and Buddy should be leash free. Which I agree with.

It has been going great. Buddy stays with me and has not been going over there at all. MUCH to their dismay.

Suddenly the outdoor light goes on.. they heard me drive in. No other lights on at all in the house so I know he (or she or both) GOT UP and CREPT through the dark to the front kitchen window and are now peaking out at me in a totally dark house through the kitchen blinds to see if Buddy ran across the street. LOL If it wasnt so sad it would be funny.

The outdoor light is on about 3 mins then back off. It occurs to me that they did this when I left to get groceries as well 2 hours earlier.

For some reason this REALLY pisses me off.... for the first time in years.. hits me right in the stomach.

So first I am thinking revenge would be sweet and decide to look it up on the web. Frankly I used to have a Browning 20 gauge that you could not miss from 25 yards and I would like to put the bead..... (I will edit this out in advance)

For some reason this feels good imagining this. I would NEVER do this for the record, YET it feels good to imagine it. I am a victim of extreme sudden anger. As Psychologist Wayne Dyer would say, "I am NOT pulling my own strings"

So I look further and I find that revenge can be very satisfying due to premordial things in the brain BUT usually not without consequences that make things worse.

---

First I went here..

http://www.mahalo.com/how-to-get-revenge/

How To Get Revenge

and read ..The Psychology of Revenge

that lead me here as I remember from reading the bible as a young man that "Vengeance is mine sayeth the lord"

http://bible.cc/romans/12-19.htm

Romans 12:19 Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord.

And I see the Bible def says basicly the above in many places.

Then I went here to get some quotes I could cling on to help my anger.

http://thinkexist.com/quotes/like/li.../175291/3.html

“Living well is the best revenge” George Herbert (English metaphysical Poet and Clergyman, 1593-1633)

“Revenge proves its own executioner.” John Ford

“Therein lies the defect of revenge: it's all in the anticipation; the thing itself is a pain, not a pleasure; at least the pain is the biggest end of it.” Mark Twain

“Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge.” Isaac Friedmann

“There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness.” Josh Billings (American Humorist, 1818-1885)

and my fav..

“Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated.” George Bernard Shaw (Irish literary Critic, Playwright and Essayist. 1925 Nobel Prize for Literature, 1856-1950)

I realized I am really just being intimidated by them which is WHAT they want, They are naturally mean and want to upset me. Nothing they can really do to me or Buddy.

So now I feel better and decide to take the high ground. I have never really done anything to these people yet they are simply assholes to me.

I have no problem with anyone else in the world yet my fate has put these people in the house closest to me.

“Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated.” George Bernard Shaw

and I realized they were intimidating me and the BEST thing I could do is to IGNORE them and live my own life.

Because going to their level will only reduce me as a person.

And this ended my journey and I feel better.

Yet I wonder WHY? What do they get out of it? Obviously if a lil kitty goes under your car for an instant and returns home NOONE in their right mind would care or even know.

As I said before, they stare OUT THE DOOR at friends or visitors when they (rarely) come over to visit me. For some reason they hate me yet I know it isnt me. It is the person living next to them.. that happens to be me.

Her father was one of the nastiest assholes in the county I have heard.

So I realize..

Some people are simply assholes. And there is nothing short of God, Karma or Distance you can do to change them.

Take time to thank your God that you have a good neighbor.

02-23-2012, 01:15 AM
Vjo So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Happy 4th of July :) Posts: 6,082	Why are some people simply assholes? A study in anger and revenge. This is the further adventures of a seven month old tiny kitten named Buddy and I vs Dickhead and The Cunt. If you dont/cant read more than two lines, you know where the back button is. Thanks anyhow for your interest. I appreciate it. For the rest, maybe some of you are angry over things you CANNOT control. Read on.. So I get home from getting groc at 11:00 pm. The assholes are lights out by at least 10:00 pm. The house is fully dark. Cunty has to rise and shine at 5 am to make her 100K nurses salary. Yes sadly with all that money she is still a miserable cunt. They are rich. I am dead poor. They have each other. I am alone. An old man, getting older and alone. I have ONE thing in my home life.. a little kitty named Buddy. It seems they are being so mean and unfair to me. No sense of right. I am relieved it is lights out so now Buddy can run without worry he may go over there.. but fact is Buddy hasnt gone over there since the ONE time 2 weeks ago I posted about which caused The Cunt to have a shit fit. And she said I should commit Buddy to a lifetime of the leash... The overwhelming consensus was she should be on a leash and Buddy should be leash free. Which I agree with. It has been going great. Buddy stays with me and has not been going over there at all. MUCH to their dismay. Suddenly the outdoor light goes on.. they heard me drive in. No other lights on at all in the house so I know he (or she or both) GOT UP and CREPT through the dark to the front kitchen window and are now peaking out at me in a totally dark house through the kitchen blinds to see if Buddy ran across the street. LOL If it wasnt so sad it would be funny. The outdoor light is on about 3 mins then back off. It occurs to me that they did this when I left to get groceries as well 2 hours earlier. For some reason this REALLY pisses me off.... for the first time in years.. hits me right in the stomach. So first I am thinking revenge would be sweet and decide to look it up on the web. Frankly I used to have a Browning 20 gauge that you could not miss from 25 yards and I would like to put the bead..... (I will edit this out in advance) For some reason this feels good imagining this. I would NEVER do this for the record, YET it feels good to imagine it. I am a victim of extreme sudden anger. As Psychologist Wayne Dyer would say, "I am NOT pulling my own strings" So I look further and I find that revenge can be very satisfying due to premordial things in the brain BUT usually not without consequences that make things worse. --- First I went here.. http://www.mahalo.com/how-to-get-revenge/ How To Get Revenge and read ..The Psychology of Revenge that lead me here as I remember from reading the bible as a young man that "Vengeance is mine sayeth the lord" http://bible.cc/romans/12-19.htm Romans 12:19 Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. And I see the Bible def says basicly the above in many places. Then I went here to get some quotes I could cling on to help my anger. http://thinkexist.com/quotes/like/li.../175291/3.html “Living well is the best revenge” George Herbert (English metaphysical Poet and Clergyman, 1593-1633) “Revenge proves its own executioner.” John Ford “Therein lies the defect of revenge: it's all in the anticipation; the thing itself is a pain, not a pleasure; at least the pain is the biggest end of it.” Mark Twain “Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge.” Isaac Friedmann “There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness.” Josh Billings (American Humorist, 1818-1885) and my fav.. “Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated.” George Bernard Shaw (Irish literary Critic, Playwright and Essayist. 1925 Nobel Prize for Literature, 1856-1950) I realized I am really just being intimidated by them which is WHAT they want, They are naturally mean and want to upset me. Nothing they can really do to me or Buddy. So now I feel better and decide to take the high ground. I have never really done anything to these people yet they are simply assholes to me. I have no problem with anyone else in the world yet my fate has put these people in the house closest to me. “Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated.” George Bernard Shaw and I realized they were intimidating me and the BEST thing I could do is to IGNORE them and live my own life. Because going to their level will only reduce me as a person. And this ended my journey and I feel better. Yet I wonder WHY? What do they get out of it? Obviously if a lil kitty goes under your car for an instant and returns home NOONE in their right mind would care or even know. As I said before, they stare OUT THE DOOR at friends or visitors when they (rarely) come over to visit me. For some reason they hate me yet I know it isnt me. It is the person living next to them.. that happens to be me. Her father was one of the nastiest assholes in the county I have heard. So I realize.. Some people are simply assholes. And there is nothing short of God, Karma or Distance you can do to change them. Take time to thank your God that you have a good neighbor. Last edited by Vjo; 02-23-2012 at 01:25 AM..