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Originally Posted by kronic
That's hilarious, but seriously, it would be awesome if you could find out from your brother exactly what it was that Donny said that made him rethink things. Or post it here if you already know. I don't think I've ever been this curious about something that's been hinted at on GFY, so that's saying a lot.
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I can probably make a pretty good guess at what his brother heard that made his relationship change. I'll bet it has something to do with this:
When I speak, I talk about the law of supply and demand. I point out that it is hypocritical to hate the "supply" side of the porn industry when the people sitting in church - those listening to me talk - have so much involvement in the "demand" side of porn. They may not pick up a camera, but they are just as involved in the business if they are looking at it. That's a truth nobody can argue with. And anonymous surveys show that 90% of the men in church and 70% of the women in church look at porn. And 50% of pastors admit to looking at it during the last 30 days alone (when they can remain anonymous).
I also point out that it was love that changed me and made me want to leave, not hatred and judgment. Jesus loves the porn producer just as much as he loves a pastor, soccer mom, liar, thief or prostitute. We are all the same to Him: just people who need Him to save us from the mess we've made of our lives.
My guess is that his brother listened to these points and let the information sink in and realized it was the truth, so he probably decided to stop being judgmental and just love the man regardless of what he does for a living, because sin is sin to God. There are not "levels". And one brother can't possibly claim to be sin free while the other is sinful.
^^^ That's the message I share at churches all over the world ^^^