Originally Posted by TheLegacy

Amazing how we group them all together. There are single mothers out there that would be great GF's etc. We tend to forget they may be single for other reasons than being a bitch.

Best rule of thumb if you're going to date is NOT to meet the kids until you're actually serious about being with her longer. You don't want to have a connection or feelings develop then if you leave it hurts the kids.

Any relationship deserves a chance to grow and hard to do that with kids around - so date - learn about her - watch how she talks about her ex and everything to know what she's about. It can work... and has.