Originally Posted by Tam

DO NOT PREPARE ANYTHING. that is my best advice.

Anything you prepare isn't going to be the right thing for YOUR baby and isn't going to do you much good even if it is, they are all so vastly different.

If you want to prepare anything, prepare to have your heart broken at least a million times by the time you get old and gray, because that is the one thing that you are going to get no matter what kind of baby you have. lol

Be prepared to love it, feed it, treat it like a human being and not an ornament, never ever ever let it go to sleep one single night without giving it a big hug and let it know you are there no matter what kind of fucked up shit they decided to do to you that day, let them know always that you love them.

Spent TIME with them, that's all they really and truly want outside of food, your time and your heart... give it your time and your heart and the rest will fall right into place as it should.

I have raised 4 kids (2 boys and 2 girls) and this is my very best advice I can give you.