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Originally Posted by JohnnyClips
If you hit a child, then just imagine what will happen to him/her when they become an adult? That's pure 100% abuse. They will never make it. Do not assault your children
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would you just shut up? you are like 5 seconds away from being a child yourself so what the fuck would you know about anything regarding being an adult? Do you even know any adults that aren't related to you?
The only reason I say no is because I think it is ineffective. It doesn't influence things either way so there is no need for it. I was hit plenty by 'responsible adults' who weren't my parents and all it did was make me angry.
Disciplining your children is absolutely paramount though if you want them to grow up with any sense of respect. Time outs wont cut it, they need to fear consequence in order for them to learn to behave, this can easily be done with words though, getting hysterical and screaming at them doesn't do any more than hitting them does either.