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Old 06-21-2003, 03:44 PM  
tootie
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There are plenty of girls who like porn. Like me.

I know my husband is pretty happy that he found me. Haha.

As for sorority girls... not all college girls are in sororities and not all college girls have tons of girl friends that they bring around all the time.

If you start to get to know a girl a little, why not sit down and have an honest conversation with her. Tell her what you do for a living, tell her what you're looking for in a relationship... be open. If she freaks out over what you do, you don't want her anyway.

And not all college girls are cheaters. I went to college and I've only ever cheated on two guys in my life.

The first one was when I was just 16 and it was pure revenge. My boyfriend had cheated on me at least 6 times (that I caught him, it was probably more) and I got sick of it. He was the guy who took my virginity and I was REALLY pissed off that he'd cheat on me after what I'd given him. I thought we were going to get married. Boy, teenaged girls can be so stupid. But I put up with his shit because he looked alot like Tom Cruise and all my friends wanted him. He was gorgeous. I cheated on him one night with his friend because he was in MY bedroom having oral sex with my best friend's little sister. GRR.

The other one used to hit me and I cheated on him once with a friend of his who came over to see him the night he spent in jail. He started to flirt with me when I told him my boyfriend wasn't at home and he was so friendly that it was a nice change from the abuse. Plus, his friend was a hottie that I'd actually dated a couple of times in high school. Basically I just wanted some friendly attention. I was young and stupid then, instead of cheating to make myself feel loved I should have just got the hell out from the first time he rasied his voice at me. I was 18 this time. I put up with his shit because (once again) he was gorgeous. He looked like a cross between Brendan Fraser and Casper Van Dien. My friends thought I was nuts when I left him, but I learned my lesson after him. I NEVER let looks influence my choice of men again. If he looks good and treats me well, that's good. But if he's not as good looking and treats me well, that's ok too.

I personally don't care about looks much. I do to a point. I would date someone like John Goodman or John Popper, for example, if I were single. But I would probably NOT date Andy Dick (unless he was REALLY, REALLY nice). He's too skinny and too goofy looking, but I might date him if he had an AMAZING personality. I also would not date Jon Lovitz without him having a spectacular personality.

By the time I got to college age, however, I'd changed my priorities, matured alot, and wanted a relationship much more than I wanted friends. I still had friends, but I only went out with them on occasion, and usually with my boyfriend and a group of people.

Not all college girls are the same, anyway.
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