Assessing who a girl is when you first meet her is a talent you can use in shooting porn or in meeting girls in bars, pubs, etc. The difference is in the porn field you're the one in charge. To be in charge without appearing over the top or dominate is simple. She has to respect you as someone who knows what he's doing, done this 100 times before and that she's safe with.
Meeting them on your turf makes this easier. Have lights set up, mike stands, camera on a tripod and all the paraphernalia of what's needed to shoot porn. You need to look like a professional that knows what he's doing.
You need samples of your work on hand or if pictures, maybe something nice hanging on the wall. It was easier when we could have magazines laying around with our shots on the covers and sets inside.
You take the piss out of me for not knowing how a computer works, or Magic Join links. I'm not a girl about to work with you naked and alone. Or a pro who has been shot by people like me who do know how to shoot porn. Her first impressions of you are paramount if you want to create good porn.
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