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Originally Posted by TheSquealer
Depending on how much lean muscle mass, thats not necessarily obese. However, the women in the video are morbidly obese and offended at being called "fat"
i'm 5'9", 230 and 19% body fat. I've went up to 270, i've been down to 175. I never once thought about being offended if someone said "dude, you're getting fat". I took it for what it was, cut back on my calories and got on the treadmill and started running and start changing up my workouts.
The USA is the fattest nation on the planet and preventable disease has crippled the entire healthcare system. You'll never see me saying "hey man, you're morbidly obese, but its ok, thats just your personal choice". It's a personal choice to be obese and people should accept the consequences of their choices, particularly when they affect everyone else as well.
We need to stop the shit.
We need to stop telling everyone they're perfect just how they are.
We need to stop giving out participation trophies and telling kids they're special.
We need to stop heading down this path of churning out narcissistic, self centered assholes and start telling people like it is.
And here's some food for thought on the idea of not hurting feelings.
Who excelled as a group more after high school?
The fat kids, the nerds, the social retards or the popular/cool kids?
The people who were least popular and had the lowest self esteem worked harder. The kids who were the star athletes, fucking the cheerleaders all peaked in high school... because all they knew was how awesome they are and then got out into a world they weren't prepared to deal with.
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You can still tell someone you're overall concerned about their weight, and not be an asshole about it.
Good: Hey, I'm genuinely concerned about your weight, want some help or advice on losing weight? I go to the gym x times a week, you can come along if you'd like.
Bad: hahaha look at fatty over there shoving handfuls of fries in his face, hahaha fatty fat fat fatass!
Sadly 99% of people use the second method over the first. Being a fat person what would your reaction be? Well fuck I'm gonna go join a gym right now! No, you get upset and use food as a crutch to make yourself feel better.
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Originally Posted by Konda
She is definitely a bit obese.
But the girls in the video are utterly fat. Completely different situation.
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Curvy, not obese. Obese is grossly overweight, like health problems overweight. Learn the definition.