How do you find broken people who are nothing but trouble, when you aren't looking?
So, I am told that my last two women happened to me because I seek out broken people who need me to solve all of their problems. It is the role I always played in my family. Like the Alex Reiger (if you've seen Taxi). So I am being told I seek the same kind of people, now.
Well. When I met them both they were well adjusted level headed nicely educated individuals and everything went real well. I am old now and wanted to settle down, see.
This goes beyond the honeymoon period effect. Too. They both ended up being certifiable and extremely evil. The first came down with legitimate physiological issues which affected her psychologically ... the second ended up being a drunken pill head satan on earth ..
But I was NOT seeking that. I was AVOIDING that. So- gfy gurus- insight?
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