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Originally Posted by Ross
As they well should be, they do most of the work and take on all the stresses that go along with it, do you really grudge them their big day? I certainly don't grudge my wife to be anything, she can have whatever she wants, she deserves it having to put up with me every day of her life  |
The only reason she wants it is because society has told her that's what she is supposed to want. Every little girl is programmed to dream about her 'big day' long before she meets the guy she'll marry. I am not religious so other than her taking my name, i see little point in it. I've always said I'd get married tomorrow if she wanted, I am not just keen on spending 20k or whatever for something that religious folks made up to assign ownership of women.