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johnnyloadproductions · 03-12-2013, 12:06 AM

Sounds bad beaner.

It troubles me to all those that end up with a vindictive ex. You're better off giving up more than your fair share in amicable agreements then to go forth and go to court.

People would save themselves so much trouble if they learned to negotiate and plead before getting any lawyers involved.

Nonetheless I know a producer that swears he'll never get married again because of how much trouble and how much it costs to divorce. The thing I hate the most is the women do every mind game they can play to get back at you, and their lawyers help out.
Anyway, the two of them ended up agreeing to terms and then her lawyer told him what she could do and then they went at it. He had to lawyer up and it spend hundreds of thousands totalled because of it.
She also would rat at him and one time when he went to school to pick up his daughter at the administrative office they stopped him. They told him he couldn't pick her up because "he had shot porn in his duaughter's bedroom" and they accused him of this that. She even tried to accuse him of molestation, he took tests because he was so adamant and passed. She got custody and got him so he couldn't see his daughter unless there were police available at the YMCA. He said screw it and now he just gets the occasional letter from his daughters.

Nobody likes lawyers and so much trouble can be saved if people can be rational and and be nice, never happens though.

My dad told me a story of a man that cheated on his wife with a very attractive mistress. She found out, divorced him, and in the process completely cleaned him out. He told my dad that he was very close to killing four people; His ex, her lawyer, his lawyer, and himself. He got over it.

There is one case that is very circumstantial where somebody did die. My sister had a crazy ex that got extremely angry because her lawyer humilated him in court and pretty much she ended up with full custody if I remember. Well somewhere the lawyer disappeared and finally they sent out a search for him, they found his body on his property in the lake. My sister got a new lawyer and when her ex walked in her new lawyer (female) fainted (she knew what had happened).

Anyway, my point is see what you can resolve out of court, but from the sounds of it it's way past that point. Sorry to hear you are in this situation and good luck to you.

03-12-2013, 12:06 AM
johnnyloadproductions Account Shutdown Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Gone Posts: 3,611	Sounds bad beaner. It troubles me to all those that end up with a vindictive ex. You're better off giving up more than your fair share in amicable agreements then to go forth and go to court. People would save themselves so much trouble if they learned to negotiate and plead before getting any lawyers involved. Nonetheless I know a producer that swears he'll never get married again because of how much trouble and how much it costs to divorce. The thing I hate the most is the women do every mind game they can play to get back at you, and their lawyers help out. Anyway, the two of them ended up agreeing to terms and then her lawyer told him what she could do and then they went at it. He had to lawyer up and it spend hundreds of thousands totalled because of it. She also would rat at him and one time when he went to school to pick up his daughter at the administrative office they stopped him. They told him he couldn't pick her up because "he had shot porn in his duaughter's bedroom" and they accused him of this that. She even tried to accuse him of molestation, he took tests because he was so adamant and passed. She got custody and got him so he couldn't see his daughter unless there were police available at the YMCA. He said screw it and now he just gets the occasional letter from his daughters. Nobody likes lawyers and so much trouble can be saved if people can be rational and and be nice, never happens though. My dad told me a story of a man that cheated on his wife with a very attractive mistress. She found out, divorced him, and in the process completely cleaned him out. He told my dad that he was very close to killing four people; His ex, her lawyer, his lawyer, and himself. He got over it. There is one case that is very circumstantial where somebody did die. My sister had a crazy ex that got extremely angry because her lawyer humilated him in court and pretty much she ended up with full custody if I remember. Well somewhere the lawyer disappeared and finally they sent out a search for him, they found his body on his property in the lake. My sister got a new lawyer and when her ex walked in her new lawyer (female) fainted (she knew what had happened). Anyway, my point is see what you can resolve out of court, but from the sounds of it it's way past that point. Sorry to hear you are in this situation and good luck to you.