Simply put, if it was "sexy" to men, women would be talking that way to attract men. But they don't. They do commonly talk like dumb blond 15 year old, sexually vulnerable cheerleaders. So I think thats a pretty rock solid answer as to what attracts men to women when it comes to adapting speech for the purpose of attracting men.
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Originally Posted by GrantMercury
"Women like Marilyn Monroe have been found to have the most attractive voices, with a high-pitched but breathy quality, according to research.
“What we found is that for males listening to females, they preferred the voice to be high-pitched – although not too high – and as breathy as possible,” Dr Yi Lu told the Times newspaper.
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Because it most often equates to sexual abuse as a child and being hyper-sexual as an adult. (i.e. stripper with little girls voice)
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“These suggest a small body size. Marilyn Monroe would be a very good female example.”
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Also suggests someone is easily dominated. An abused child looking for a father figure to recreate that later in life and so on.
Quite bizarre but also supports my points to repeatedly refer to an emotionally disturbed woman as an example of what men are attracted to.
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He added women appeared to look for a partner who was physically large but not aggressive.
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Women look for confidence as a primary trait, above all things. Confidence is conveyed by how one speaks, their tone etc but size also plays into ones confidence in themselves. Short men are rarely secure and confident.
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The findings dispel the idea that women adopt a higher, more feminine tone when they find a man attractive, like the stereotype damsel in distress.
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The very point of that act "high voice", suggestive poses/postures, mannerisms, acting impossibly stupid etc etc is to attract male attention with slutty behavior It's not what all women do, it's what women who use sexuality to get male attention do.
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Instead, they are more likely to put on a husky voice such as that of the television presenter Mariella Frostrup or the actress Joanna Lumley.
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Obviously, before there is attraction, their defenses are up and they act quite differently than when there is attraction and are careful not to indicate there is attraction by changing voice, posture, gestures etc etc etc etc.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/s...ists-find.html