Originally Posted by Far-L

Why is my gaydar going off so piercingly?

If you all have to make such a big deal about it you just sound like you are trying to prove something to yourselves. Just come out already. You will have a happier life and won't have to fight so hard to keep up the pretense that you are straight any longer. Believe me, you will definitely enjoy life more when you aren't ashamed to admit you love the cock.