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You can't help someone that has blamed anything and everything on someone else, something else and sincerely believes that all things, particularly those that go wrong are beyond his control.
The thing about people that rely on excuses and blame.... they never run out of excuses and blame. Someone that can put a wife and kids in this place and then say "nothing is ever my fault or my responsibility", going against every biological instinct one should have as a parent and provider is never going to help themselves.
The best thing that could ever happen to him is probably getting evicted. Hopefully, it will serve as a wake up call and if not, the stress will finally take its toll and the wife and kids will likely move on to someone better that can actually parent, actually provide and that is actually responsible and can give them what they need.
The worst thing that could happen for him and his family for the long term is that people give him money.
I sense problems with addiction.............................
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Yes, fewer illegal immigrants working equates to more job opportunities for American citizens.
Rochard
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