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Originally Posted by TheSquealer
Loki,
You put your wife and children on the street. End of story. In doing so, you have yet to say "I've done this", "this is my fault" or "I am 100% responsible for where I am at and what I've caused to happen to my family". A bunch of insane rambling about "retiring" doesn't exactly help your cause.
Children at least, deserve better.
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NOT trying to make a joke here, but reading that post now we are already on the street???
I can not and will not take blame on things that have no blame, I honestly can not understand why you can't get that through your head.
If a loved one dies how the fuck are you to blame?
If a close family member needs help how are you to blame?
or are you one of those people who if you left the house and got hit by a car crossing the street as you lay in the hospital you'd say "Well it's my fault for leaving the house"
sometimes shit just happens, out of your control, you could save up tons of money and it only takes ONE mind fuck from above and POOF it's gone.
If you had a child, who had serious medical issues and you spent your last dime to get her help do you then need to blame yourself when the money is gone for making sure your child was healthy again?
NOT my case, my kids are fine thankfully, but I'm just curious where the hell you stop assuming someone must be to BLAME for their situations, sometimes shit happens lol.
It's not bad luck, karma, fate, destiny or anything else, life is just full of struggles, some small some huge, not every single thing that happens in a person's life can have blame attached back to the person.
and please ENOUGH of the retired stuff, you don't know me or what my cash situation was, only my clients, family, friends, H&R Block, and the IRS know what I made. When I say I retired from Adult to move on to other things it means just that, I retired from adult and moved on. I
never claimed to have hundreds of thousands of dollars or millions, I had enough savings to leave, take a vacation with my family and cover all bills for the transition time of my new ventures AND had enough in case of emergencies (but no matter how much you plan unexpected things CAN happen)
I'll agree, IF I was here saying "I retired from adult." (and nothing more) I'd welcome people calling me crazy, irresponsible, bad parent, provider and husband with the current situation.
BUT
ALL I have said over and over is: "I retired from adult to move on to other things" MEANING I STILL WORKED, Retire can mean stop working altogether, leave one industry and move to another, it's all contextual and I have never implied I was so well off I stopped working and put my family in danger as many love to imply.
-Loki-