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Originally Posted by Elli
And I didn't mean he needs to wait to find someone special. I meant just try to have a few repeat dates with one woman. Just a few. Enough to know each other's last names, maybe. That could alleviate some anxiety.
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His anxiety is likely to be the product of substance abuse as a first point. He's already hinted at that many times. And he's unlikely to stop as he's also hinted at alcohol as a coping mechanism for his problem, vs really wanting to fix the "problem".
Further, being with someone you love or care about doesn't stop you from worrying about the boys in the lab at CERN playing with anti-matter while a girl is blowing you. His problem is what he believes to be an inability to get control of his thoughts, how he chooses to deal with it (binge drinking) and the fact that he's not genuinely interested in help, change or personal betterment.