Things aren't what they used to be financially for a lot of us here, especially for those of us who never had or cared for a "backup plan".
So what is a guy to do who is basically unemployable in "the real world" and whose future is based on nothing more than a gamble on the "next big thing"?
Dating takes time and money. What?s a hard-working, single man to do?
"The problem is this nagging self-doubt given my current station in life. I am a handsome guy, athletic, intelligent; not always great at meeting women because I get a little nervous and perhaps somewhat fearful of rejection. That aside, I feel like if I asked a girl out to dinner or something, talking about myself would be really painful having to disclose the various aspects of my situation. As a result, I have totally dismissed any prospect of meeting someone until my life is in a more presentable state of affairs, which stinks because I would really like to be enjoying someone else's company."
http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/rela...e_and_liv.html
if a man?s finances aren?t in order, he isn?t in a position to really date.
http://mydatinghangovers.com/?p=1383
So, should a broski even bother?
Discuss.