My daughter wants to do porn!
This is a serious post, no bs. I found out from her boyfriend that my 18-year-old daughter is considering doing porn.
It?s not really a surprise to me, as she takes after me all the way, daredevil, non-conformist, experimental, etc. When she was 15 I found her Yahoo web site, which was loaded up with suggestive pictures of her and a girlfriend, together and alone. I didn?t say anything to her at the time, as I knew it was just play. She is actually fairly conservative and I know for a fact never screwed around, never did drugs, drank, etc.
She is drop deal beautiful (although looks like about 14) so I have no doubt she?d be loaded with work.
According to her boyfriend, the primary impetus is money. She has always lived an opulent lifestyle, and we have been trying to put the brakes on that somewhat the past couple years to teach her some responsibility. But I still cave in all the way every time she cries and says she HAS to have something ? last week it was a $7500 horse.
I?m torn here between laying down the law on this, and being flexible. What I mean by that is, allowing her to do up to Playboy-style and even helping get her started, or just saying flat out fucking no and then wondering what she is doing behind my back.
The thing that worries me is, I have shot tons of 18 and 19 year old girls. Every one has told me that 99% of the photographers out there hit on them or do some other weird thing, in fact most told me that I was the *only* guy shooting movies who wasn?t an asshole or a perv. Even besides that, the extra money of girl/girl or something that is calling her like a siren.
I don?t look down on girls that do porn or anything; I just think that the rewards don?t measure up to the risk. My daughter starts college this fall, and I just think life would be a hell of a lot easier as a brain surgeon or a lawyer or something.
So, let her do Playboy style or just say no?
And? if your only comment is to ask her email address, GO FUCK YOURSELF!
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